I will always start a post with the word Happy in front of it because every day is a good day to have a good day, but I am also #human and allowing myself to go through some odd waves of motion this week. Still smiling, and of course, Happy Tuesday, World!
My father's #death 🤍this week impacted me, and not in a way that I expected.
We have been estranged for two decades; he was never present, didn't have any love in his heart to give to others, and wasn't a role model. I've been blessed to have the most amazing mother in the world, ✨my universe, and the only #parent I have ever known.
At the same time, I did want to reflect and share what this passing has made me think, feel, and reflect on.
➡️ Time is limited. What you plan to do in a week, month, or year ISN'T guaranteed. I feel a newfound sense of #urgency in my life. Don't miss out on what you truly want with the notion: "Oh, I have time." Be very intentional about your time, and always place yourself first.
➡️ Becoming a mother has been a life goal of mine for a while, and I've been very open about embarking on this journey independently since, as a woman - that special clock is ticking. I am making it my sole priority to take all the steps and actions and be ready for the 'thing' I've long longed for so dearly, and my sense is that in #2024, my dream will come true.
➡️ Letting go of people and individuals who show me disrespect, unkindness, or a lack of gratitude is a must/need regardless of our relationship. #sorrynotsorry
➡️ Setting much bigger health goals. #health and #relationships are my guiding #values in life, but there is no excuse for me moving forward to not 'find' 60-90 min/day to #exercise. The mantra I've been using for a while, #movelikeyouloveyourself, feels even more surreal. More yoga, more nature, too. Daily.
➡️ Saying no with ease. #don'tcomplain #don'texplain - say it with a smile to show kindness, yet follow what feels true to you, and know that saying no with confidence is the most #liberating feeling in the world.
➡️ My mom's happiness is my happiness. I don't want a day to go by where she isn't happy, healthy, or knowing how #grateful I am to her for the person, role -model, and figure she is, and how much she means to me. She's my #best friend and my #hero.
✅✨ I wrote out my life's #visionstatement for the next seven years. It's bold, ambitious, and fearless, and when I wrote it out and read it out loud, tears streamed down my face, feeling incredibly #proud of the woman I have become. She's awesome.⚡️
➡️ Stop playing little. I've wanted to write a book for ages, possibly even design some clothes, and yup - create a #selfloveschool, so I'm going to let my creativity SOAR and will keep you updated on the journey as I make all of these things happen!
➡️ Give back way more to communities and literally do things for others just BECAUSE.
An individual with a vision is #unstoppable, and my message is for everyone to BE BOLD. BE BRAVE. BE BEAUTIFUL. Believe in yourself⚡️
Final Thought
Dear Reader- write out your #life's #vision statement. You set the timeline - I personally like the number 7. Write it, see how it feels, print it out so you can see it (33% of it manifesting into reality if you write it out/see it every day btw), so do it, and always: #trusththeprocess
✨ Remember, There is only one you, and that is your magic.
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