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America: A Love Letter in Real Time




 

Acknowledging the Global Challenges


I get it. These days, when you say you're from America, there’s often a pause, a side-eye, or a subtle nod of disapproval. And with the state of the world as it is—with the war in Ukraine, the heartbreaking conflict in the Middle East, and the seemingly endless barrage of crises—it’s no wonder America gets the finger pointed its way.

I’m not here to sugarcoat or play politics. In fact, I’m the first to say that politics isn’t my arena, and I don’t intend to jump into that fire. But I’m not blind, and I’m certainly not ignorant of the turmoil that grips so many corners of the globe.


Yet, here’s the thing—I’m grateful. And not in the fake, “let me plaster a smile and pretend all is well” kind of way. But in the real, deep-down-in-my-core kind of gratitude.

The Immigrant Experience: A New Beginning


You see, back in 1984, my family and I left Hungary with nothing but hope in our hearts and a few suitcases in hand. We were given a new life, immunity, and citizenship, which wasn’t just a paper to us—it was a new beginning. It was a home. And while that seems like a lifetime ago, those moments stay with me.

What’s even more amazing is that, while America opened its doors, it wasn’t just the system that gave us a home—it was the people, the community, the warmth, and yes, even the church. The sense of belonging was deeply personal.


A Year of Personal Battles and Unwavering Support


Over this past year, I’ve faced some deeply personal battles, and I can’t even begin to describe the support I’ve received. People who, without hesitation, quite literally held my hand and embraced me. It wasn’t just friendship—it was family. This community became my second family, reminding me daily that when you fall, you don’t fall alone. There’s always someone reaching out, ready to lift you back up.


The Power of Networking and Business Innovation


And that’s never been more evident than in this career transition I’ve found myself navigating. The power of business and networking here is unmatched. I’ve had colleagues and friends who’ve made valuable introductions, connected me to new opportunities, and even invited me to events where I met people who helped me pivot in ways I couldn’t have imagined. It's not just about what you know but who’s willing to lend a hand, share a name, and open a door. I will always be grateful for that community spirit of helping each other succeed. The way business, innovation, and networking are built into the fabric of America is truly special, and I’ve seen it make a tangible difference in my life.


Traveling the World but making DC my Home


There’s something about America that’s different. I’ve been fortunate enough to travel to 57 countries and counting. Listen. I love London—honestly, it’s my favorite city in the whole world—but for right now, I think I'm more than content with visiting (at least twice a year) while happily calling DC home.


Why? Because there’s a warmth here, that’s hard to describe. Americans smile at you. They actually smile! Strangers wave. People ask how you are and wait for the answer. And that willingness to help, to connect, to see you succeed? That’s not just a saying here; it’s a way of life.


Future Plans: A Move to Italy, but an American Education for My Child


I dream of moving to Todi, Italy, when I have my baby—because, let’s be real, Italy has its magic, too. And while I picture myself there for two years, soaking up the slow pace and incredible food, I know I’ll be back. Why? Because I want my child to go to school here.

Where I live, the education is incomparable. There’s something about the way the American education system fosters curiosity, ambition, and the drive to create that makes it so special, and that’s something I want for my child.


Recognizing the Challenges, Embracing the Possibilities


Sure, this place has its issues. The fentanyl crisis, homelessness, and countless other problems are right there in the open. I don’t shy away from seeing them. They’re part of the same fabric, but even in that, I choose to be here because this place gives you the opportunity to change things. To make things better.


For me, the gratitude runs deep. America gave me a place to land and a chance to grow. I’ve met the kindest souls here. People who opened doors for me—both figuratively and literally—and I couldn’t be more thankful. Life here isn’t perfect, but it’s real. It’s gritty, raw, and full of possibilities. And let’s be honest. No place is perfect. London may have those double-decker buses, but last time I checked, their weather hasn’t won any awards either. So, for now, I’ll take DC’s humid summers, political debates, and the occasional whiff of hotdog carts.


Call to Action: Life Transitions and Coaching


If you’re reading this and going through your own life transition—whether it’s career, family, or personal—I encourage you to jump on a coaching call with me. There’s no better time to tap into the energy of possibility and start shaping what’s next.


What about you? What keeps you grounded in your own home, wherever that may be? How has community shaped your experience of where you live? What do you think are the real strengths of your country, even with its flaws? Let’s talk about the things that make home feel like home.

XOXO,

Coach Ms.K

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